Xa amantshontsho amahle ekhwela i-merry-go-round nge... izikhonkwane zomthi, oko kuthetha kakhulu! Kubo, ukususa abafana kufana nokubamba ingono ngeminwe emibini. Akumangalisi ukuba babe nabafana ababini abangamadoda abaxhomekeke kwiibele zabo ngomzuzu. Kwaye kwindlu yasehlotyeni apho amantombazana abathatha khona, kwakukho intshontsho yokudlala ejinga emnyango. Kwakubonakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba amantombazana afumane abafana abazizityebi. Kodwa le mizimba mitsha ixabisa ukubethelwa okongeziweyo ngeepepile zabo!
Ukuba umfana uneengxaki zemali, unethamsanqa ukuba abe nentombi. Usenokuhamba engenakhaya. Kodwa nangoko, ukohlukana nentombi yakhe ngolo hlobo, ngenxa yemali, aze ayinyebelezele kumhlobo wakhe. Ewe, iyaphambana indlela azakumjonga ngayo apha emehlweni, xa imali ingazukuba yingxaki. Uninzi lwazo zonke zandichukumisa indlela intombazana, ngokujonga okwanelisekile, yathatha imbewu yalo mhlobo osisityebi. Ngelo xesha ndandizibuza ukuba usamdinga na lo mfana wakhe.
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